I am a Gottman Therapist and use the Gottman Method of Couple Counselling to help heal relationships. This approach identifies the root cause of the weakness and uses tools to strengthen the relationship. Many couples are not even aware of what caused the loss of fondness for their partner. The only thing they can see is the symptom (lack of communication, desire to share, and overall distancing of one another). I have a bird’s eye view of why this breakdown occurs and what it takes to reunite.
Many couples do not see this disconnect coming, until it is too late. There are simple tools that you can use as a daily ritual (that go beyond communication for example) so that you don’t become another statistic; a parent that sees their child only 50% of the time or less, and consulting with a family lawyer. If you are reading this and have found yourself comparing your partner with another acquaintance, you most definitely need to visit my office.
“Hi Luella, I wanted to check in and let you know how things are going… sooo good. We’re really happy and have moved forward. We’re talking, laughing and looking for a new house. I’m taking time to work on myself regularly and feel better then I have in a long time. I don’t want to jinx anything but we’re good. That’s not saying I don’t have moments where I feel upset or angry, but I can work through those feeling now. Thank you for helping us.”
31 y.o. Mom | 04/18/2019, Winnipeg
“Luella has been a huge help in making our lives better. Her guidance in getting us to deal with our issues head-on, yet in a soft way, has been amazing. Luella is not only well educate and experienced, but also has a personal desire to make life better for your clients. I don’t know where we would be without her.”
Male, 22 years married | 16/10/2017, Winnipeg